Is an EV actually worth it?
Depends entirely on where you park at night.
If you can charge at home, an EV is cheaper to run than almost anything with a gas tank. If you're relying on public charging, the math gets a lot tighter and the daily hassle is real. That one question decides it more than range, brand, or price.
Lease or buy?
EVs are the one case where leasing often wins.
Battery tech is moving fast and used EV values have been unpredictable. A lease hands that risk to the bank instead of you. If you drive big miles or plan to keep a car eight years, buying still makes more sense.
How do I not get burned on my trade?
Never talk trade before you've picked the car.
Quote a trade too early and it becomes a lever. Pick your car, settle the price of that car, and then handle the trade as its own conversation. Get one outside offer in writing first so you know what the floor is.
What's the real red flag at a dealership?
When nobody will talk about the out-the-door number.
Monthly payment is the easiest number in the building to manipulate. Ask for the total out-the-door price in writing. If that question makes the conversation uncomfortable, you've learned everything you need to know.